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Stop Entertaining Situationships That Starve You

If it doesn’t feed you — love, joy, peace, growth — then it is starving you.

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Otissia Lynette
Sep 20, 2025
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How many more days are you going to call starvation a relationship?

How many more days are you going to let him breadcrumb you — a text here, a night there, a little attention but never devotion?

How many more days are you going to pretend you’re satisfied with scraps when you deserve a feast?

Sis — situationships starve you.

They starve your body of real intimacy.

They starve your heart of real commitment.

They starve your spirit of real partnership.

They starve your dreams of real alignment.

And yet we convince ourselves that a situationship is better than nothing.

We tell ourselves: “At least I’m not alone.”

But sis — you are alone. More alone than if you walked away.

Because being in bed with someone who doesn’t see your soul is lonelier than any empty room.

Stop entertaining situationships that starve you.

Because love is not meant to be confusion.

Love is not meant to be half-present.

Love is not meant to be conditional on convenience.

If it doesn’t feed you, it is starving you.

And you deserve …

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